i don’t know, does harlan ever talk with any of you guys? does he just like an audience or does he really want to find something in his life. i wonder if he thinks that hes life start making a turn for the better people will stop reading this none sense and in fact leave him completely alone. i don’t know am asking.
thats not to say i know the answer to “why bother”. but i most certainly try. even though sometimes i feel just like you do.
if this blog is an attempt to reach out i think its not working the way it should…
you should see what you have accomplished and gain strength from the fact that at least you have the freedom and ability to do what you want.
its not like things work out all the time for me, but when they do it’s a great feeling.
quit wishing for shit and go for it. what do you have to loose anyway, is not like your life is worth very much at this time is it?
new coldplay record, mario kart wii, new paul weller opus, euro 2008, diet coke with lime, home cooked lasagne, a new philip pullman masterpiece that will surely come, lost season 5, soveryalone, xkcd, tramadol hydrochloride, Gustav Klimt at the Tate, good cycling weather….
Oh, you just meant, “why bother” with the blog…..
I thought you were SCREAMING for help. Sorry, my mistake.
Because every time I think you can’t possible fuck things up any worse, you find a way to do it. And you ignore with great success any suggestions that might actually make things better. You can’t buy entertainment like that.
That being said, it’s your call, we are masters of our own destiny, and we live by the choices we make.
I’m not sure I’m on the right track here, but if so, Harlan is one clever, cryptic guy. You see, if you unscramble the letters of his title — The Hard Question — you get what must be a personal message to Lilly. It says: End Her Shit Quota!
I like that interpretation better than some of the other anagrammatic possibilities.
Oh, and if you don’t keep going, we’ll never figure out how you got the meds, or what psychological condition you had to get them. Depression? Bipolar? Some anxiety disorder? ESOLN needs this information to stop sounding like a complete ass, you must help him!
Are you okay??
If your that bad off, please see a doctor immediatly, people can can slip deep into a back hole of depression, but there is help out there for you. I think all the posters here are just teasing you in good fun because you have a good sense of humor. If they did not think you could take it or laugh at it they would not bother to troll you.
Get help if you need it, please….
Seriously Harlan, get a grip. If you were dealing with brain cancer (as is someone’s wife in another blog I read daily) this on and on woe wiz me might make some sense. Your life isn’t horrible, don’t take it for granted. Yes, you’ve been a total shithead for quite a few of your posts, but the good news is, unlike someone with terminal brain cancer, you can decide to make it better.
We all occasionally fall into the trap of contemplating the futility of it all, but then we have to get a grip and keep going. Sometimes that seems daunting or downright impossible, but as people have already stated, it’s better than the alternative. Besides, when you manage to see beyond the fog of hopelessness, you’ll find that life isn’t as meaningless as you thought. I know chemical imbalances don’t help anything, but there is medication for that; if Celexa isn’t working, find something else. And beyond that, life is what we make it. No amount of medication is going to make you happy if you keep doing things that will unavoidably make you miserable. Please, Harlan, do good things and life will be good to you.
Hey! Wish you would give an update. Things lookin’ up yet? Most of the people here actually care, H - and at the least, they care enough to pop in and check on you. That’s gotta count for something, right?
I’m still waiting for ESOLN to tell me how he determined that Harlan gets the benefit of the doubt on some sort of imbalance, just because he scored some feel good drug, and yet Lilly and I are simply “assholes”
To all:
I have spoke with ‘Harlan’ he is not well. In fact he tried to take his own life on Tuesday. I don’t think he will be coming back here anytime soon, if at all. I just thought everyone here would like to know. I will try to keep everyone posted with what I know. He really wont talk to me to much. I found out from ‘Jane’
so your readership is down and you know nobody believes so you resort to this? WTF is wrong wit h you dude.
Find another experiement. You took this one way to far.
Those of you who are so high and mighty to think that you can be sure this person is not in serious trouble, I hope you can live with yourself when/if you find out that this is for real and you sent a mentally ill person further over the edge.
Hey now…no matter what you think, there is always that slim chance that Harlan is real and that he is someone out there in serious need of help. How can you people live with yourselves? You must be those who yell up to that suicidal person to jump just as the police are trying to talk the person down off the ledge. Your setting yourself up with some bad Karma…
you know what. if people want to go and kill themselves, who i am to say don’t do it.
even if this blog where to be fake. it illustrates a valid point, its hard to show compassion to those that have none. i check this blog ever so often out of curiosity…
i like reading the comments people leave, either caring or sarcastic, and the best part is how he for the most part ignores most of them.
well it seems he at least got to talk to jane again, so i guess the suicide attempt was worth it. there is no way they end up together though, cause no one loves a perpetual wanker.
and about all those bleeding hearts out there. you can’t help someone that doesn’t want to help themselves. so let everyone’s consciousness remain guilt free.
Its the easiest thing in the world for people who can’t stop long enough to care about someone other than themselves to say “Screw ‘em. Why should I care?”
If you think he’s a fake, why come back here at all? Just to torture him? You’re pathetic.
I’m not a bleeding heart. I am currently doing nothing to help Harlan. But at least I have the decency to not taunt him like a child.
Look, continue to walk around the world caring about no one but yourself, but just have the decency to leave this person alone.
As I have mentioned before, I follow another blog where the posters wife is dying from terminal brain cancer. After years of fighting various forms of cancer, it has now gone to her brain, and she is literally fighting for her life. She has 4 children, and a loving husband, this makes me sad, and I truly wish for the best for her and her family whatever the outcome.
Then we have clepto boy here, who lies, and cares not for anyone but himself. Nothing for society, nor anyone who doesn’t in some way make him feel better. He constantly makes decisions based only on his own needs and wants, and rarely if ever considers how it will effect anyone else, or society. Lo and behold he ends up miserable and might even be contemplating suicide, if one is to believe this blog. I have no pity for someone who lives in a state of self pity and denial about reality. My feelings of empathy are reserved for those with REAL illness, not poor choice after poor choice leading to what would naturally be a depressed state (depression, real depression doesn’t come from external stimuli, it is present no matter how good or bad things get, Harlan is a whiney bitch, but if he is truly depressed, it’s due to his choices in life, not to some chemical in his brain).
So, while I do indeed have compassion, I reserve it for those I feel deserve it. Judge me as you see fit, for I care not one ounce what you think, as I make my choices clearly in my own mind after careful consideration, and am not led by blind faith in anyone or anything.
I find it shocking that I am even bothering here. I think ‘Harlan’ fucked up killing himself on purpose. ‘Harlan’ is/was crying out for help. Rather you believe any of this to be true does not matter. The fact is there is a person out there that needs help. Seems for the most part he is not going to get it from here. Thank you to the far and few people who actaully care. Bleeding Hearts?? You think people are bleedings hearts because, they care rather someone is dead or alive? They are care because someone is in so much pain they want to end their own life? Even if this is all a story, there is truth behind ever lie. For those of you who still do care, please send some prayers his way.
I follow that same blog and as heartbreaking as it is, I find the writer, Susan, their family & friends to be an incredible inspiration. You see, I found it through Lance Armstrong because I am currently fighting breast cancer.
I am extremely compassionate, to those who are deserving. I not only have no compassion for this idiot, I haven’t an ounce of respect for him. In fact, he’s lower than pond scum.
Oh and the reason I come here was purely for entertainment purposes, which it provided in the beginning. He’s now more than crossed the line in making a complete mockery of those with mental illness. Using this to gain attention is disgusting and thankfully, not working very well.
Shame On You/ESOLN: I believe you’re sincere and have a good heart, but honestly - open your eyes, the facts are overwhelming that he is completely full of shit. Every time you respond I feel that you’re providing him with another check-mark in the ‘I got ‘em’ category.
Find someone who is sincerely in need of your kindness and understanding and please stop assuming that Joe and I are ignorant and/or arrogant. You couldn’t be more mistaken.
“depression, real depression doesn’t come from external stimuli, it is present no matter how good or bad things get, Harlan is a whiney bitch, but if he is truly depressed, it’s due to his choices in life, not to some chemical in his brain”
Really, DOCTOR? Wow. How can you be so sure?
Mental illness, by definition, concerns people who behave with “self-pity” and “denial of reality”. They don’t seem to care about others because they don’t seem to care about themselves.
You, deciding here on this board, that a cancer patient is more deserving of love and understanding than a person dealing with severe depression caused by an uncontrollable chemical balance in the brain is a sad commentary on humanity, in my view.
Until the day that you can tell me that you have met Harlan and have spoken to him long enugh to know for sure that he is full of shit, then clearly we are all just going with our gut, here.
I am no more sure than you are, either way, but I don’t think it is necessary for you to call him names and degrade him on a daily basis.
I’m sure you will continue. Because that’s “just you”, right? You are not here trying to defend the rights of truth and justice. You are here to be mean from behind the safety of your computer.
In real life, you probably swallow all of your anger towards people because you can’t risk saying what you really think because people would think you are a bad person.
“Richard” said, ‘Even if this is all a story, there is truth behind every lie’. Thanks for commenting “Richard”. Many of us have believed that statement all along, so I hope you can understand why we’re so leery to accept anything as truth.
I’ve been entertained by all of “Harlan’s” posts and enjoyed the banter from all of the amazing commenters here. I’ll miss everyone if this blog indeed ends.
“Harlan” - I’m not sure what to say to you. If you’re truly crying out for help, then, please follow through and get that help. Start making the right choices. You know what they are. On the other side of the coin; if, you are just doing this for attention….then, I’m the fool. Good luck in life, “Harlan”.
I can’t believe that y’all are naive enough to believe this. I salute every one of the ney sayers and agree that Harlan stepped over the line with this story.
ESOLN: If continually calling the kettle black is the way you can justify what you’re doing, all the power to ya. although, why change your name in the midst of this if you consider you’re so ‘brave’?
You accuse Joe of seeing a cancer patient as being more deserving of love and compassion than a person suffering with mental illness. Again, would you please breathe, relax and READ what is being said here. That couldn’t be further from the truth. Obviously, Joe has compassion for people with mental illness. It’s people like ‘Harlan’ that most everyone on this board has no compassion for. He’s either a dishonest, stealing, cheating, disloyal, disrespectful, shameless, accusatory, loser or someone unsuccessfully making the attempt to create a story by making a mockery out of mental illness.
I love it how you “Doctor” tell me that harlan has a chemical imbalance. In fact, harlan has a “taking responsability” imbalance. Find me ONE post where he has admitted wrongdoing and felt sorry for it (Not sorry for getting caught, not sorry because of a shitty outcome, but genuine sorrow for lying/stealing).
I have no respect for him because he has no respect for anyone. And yes, crazy as it may indeed sound to you, a cancer patient gets my respect, while our whiney little bitch H here does not.
Oh, and as to the “Swallow your words” bullshit you just tossed at Lilly, I’d tell Harlan every single thing I’ve said here to his face, and I’m pretty damn sure she would too. Bad people are those who defend wrong actions, such as stealing and lying, and not being accountable for ones actions. That’s not me by the way I read it. The truth is what it is, like it or not.
“In fact, harlan has a “taking responsability” imbalance”.
Oh, how very Republican of you. Judge away there, judgey.
My point remains…you do not know him, I do not know him, Lilly does not know him. Whether you would or would not tell him these things to his face or not, you will likely never get the chance so WHY DO YOU BOTHER WITH HIM? Just for sport, maybe?
You take a person’s words and feelings when they are telling you that they are at their deepest level of pain and you decide who you think that they are and punish them for it. How can you be sure that Harlan doesn’t hate himself for everything that he is that you despise?
It’s a blog. If our buddy H here want’s us to know how he feels about something, he can write it. And the Republican thing is a total riot. I believe in taking resposability for one’s actions, that’s the price of freedom, and doesn’t have a thing to do with politics. I’m all for programs that help people, and I’ve argued several times that the divide in this country between the haves and the have nots is far out of kilter. Oh, and did you happen to notice that Harlan is going to VOTE republican too? I found that quite interesting.
I’m not punishing anyone. I’m typing my outlook and opinions on a blog, that’s what blogs are for. Harlan is sharing his outlooks, and we are responding. You don’t like the way I respond, and I don’t think your take is accurate either. Guess what? That’s the way it is. That’s why discussion exists, and you KEEP dodging my questions. I asked you very simply how you determined there was an imbalance when not one word of a diagnosis, or psych visit, or Dr. visit for that matter has been posted on the site. For all we know Harlan got the happy pills from a street vendor. You come back with numerous attacks on me, but never once consider that.
If Harlan hates himself, he has a very odd way of expressing it, for example, anytime someone calls him on his bad behavior, if he truly didn’t like himself he might say “I know, I should not act this way, and I need to try to change” Instead he says things like “you shouldn’t breed” or “who are you to tell me to smile”. All things that make me thing he’s just happy as hell being miserable.
Joe, I get it. Harlan is miserable. Why he is miserable is clearly up for speculation. I’m not dodging your questions. I’ll say it again…
YOU do not know if there is an imbalance just like I do not know if there is an imbalance. I am taking him at his word, in a forum, over the internet. Whether I believe him or not, I choose not to push his buttons or be mean to him for my own, sick pleasure.
The kicker is, I don’t really care for Harlan’s views and opinions. For example, I think his reasons for voting Republican are juvenile and mis informed. All of that is irrelevant to me, however.
He appears to be a person in trouble. Any compassionate person would either try to help him or leave him alone.
So, let me get this straight. You admit to not knowing if Harlan has an imbalance, about 10 posts after slamming me for picking on someone who clearly has an imbalance. You then proceed to diagnose me as having some sort of imbalance, because I have slammed Harlan for making poor choice after poor choice.
Now you claim to be trying to help him? Exactly how is you, encouraging that he continue along his current path, helping him?
Saying nice things to someone who constantly pushes pins in his eye and then complains about it hurting won’t make him stop pushing pins in his eye. Yelling at people who are telling him it’s idiotic to keep sticking pins in his eye, will do nothing to help him either. Harlan has been jamming pins into his eyes for several months here, and I’ve said it’s a stupid thing to do. Anytime anyone tells him it’s a bad thing to do, he simply degrades them, or yells at them, or calls them heartless, and the starts jamming the pins right back in.
Somehow, those of you who are telling him if he just keeps doing what he’s doing, things will get better, also have yourselves convinced you’re HELPING. That is the craziest thing of all.
I never claimed to be trying to help, or hurt, Harlan, I just comment on what I see. That is, after all, what a blog is for.
And by the way, Joe, I don’t really take issue with most of what you say. You, like me, are expressing your opinion and that’s fine.
But when you say that you are not trying to HURT or HELP Harlan, I think you’d better take a deeper look because last time I checked, calling someone “a whiny bitch” is not very nice and probably hurtful to just about anyone.
I said all I had to say to you two and I had no intention of continuing with this conversation. You have a hard heart and I can’t change that.
But since you seem to think you are continuing with our conversation via Shame on You, I decided to try one more time. *sigh*
I think one of your (many) problems on this blog, Joe (and Lilly) is that you can’t keep the players straight. Shame on You is not me. I am not she. Get it? Two different people. We comment separately as two separate people with our own opinions. Here’s a hint for you to help you keep it straight - we have different names.
I said that I think H has a chemical imbalance. I am not a doctor. I could be wrong, but I based that on the fact that he’s obviously not “normal” and does a lot of wonky things, AND a professional (we don’t know if it was a GP or a psychiatrist because he never said), put him on medication. I don’t know the diagnosis, and contrary to what you accused me of, I didn’t assign one. Again, I’m not a doctor. But he was put on Celexa, which I believe is for depression. Granted, he may have been misdiagnosed, but I am not in a position to determine that.
A mental disorder is just as valid as a physical disorder or disease. You and Lilly apparently choose to disregard it as a bunch of bullshit. Go ahead. Mental illness has always carried a stigma among the ignorant. Sadly, it probably always will.
I don’t know if H is for real and I never said he was. However, I don’t KNOW that he’s NOT. Kicking a guy when he’s down (or may be down) is a pretty shitty, dirty thing to do. I don’t do it. But that’s just me.
Your interpretation of “what a blog is for” is actually only your opinion. I doubt if there are very many bloggers who post about their personal lives because they are trying to illicit your opinion. I think you overestimate your importance, Joe. There are as many reasons for a blog as there are people.
Lilly - I’m sorry you’re fighting breast cancer. Good luck.
Shame on You - you’re just wasting your time. It seems to me that Joe just likes to fight, and he can’t let it go and just agree to disagree.
Richard - thanks for the update.
H - just keep trying, and get the appropriate help. This blog can’t substitute for the help of a good psychologist and psychiatrist. I wish you the best. People can change if they want to and they get the right help.
I do like to argue, I find it enjoyable, as one only truly comes to an understanding of a position when he must defend it with reason.
Now on to crackjob- I find it truly astonishing that terminal cancer can be compared this blog. What was Harlans biggest recent tradgedy? Was it the wolverine incident? Or perhaps getting smacked in the mouth after pushing mr “be happy”
And this compares, in your mind, to terminal brain cancer? A MAZ ING.
Might I be blessed with the worst thing happening to me be anything that has happened to Harlan, rather than what has happened to Susan.
Oh, and to share a little about my personal life, I know quite a bit about both OCD and Depression, as well as the drugs for treating both, my daughter has OCD, and has taken Zoloft, and now is taking Prozac. Her decisions are getting better, but it was a struggle to get her to accept the consequences of her actions (poor choices) in the past, this is getting better. But, it never would have gotten better if she hadn’t learned making those wrong choices had a lot to do with her being unhappy. It’s a hard lesson, and even harder when battling a psychological issue that clouds the perception.
I would expect if her decision making remained where it was when she was about 5, she’d have a life very similar to Harlan. Harlan is STILL making those types of decisions.
Think what you will, but I’ll tell you flat out, I’ve never shed a tear for Harlan, since he’s made his own bed time and time again. A terminal cancer patient on the other had, can and has brought me to tears (not just Susan). Take it or leave it. With the freedom to choose one’s path, comes the responsibility for that path.
We really should start our own message board somewhere.
Regardless of whether we agree or disagree, you guys are turning out to be pretty interesting characters and it appears as though Harlan has dropped from circulation all together, leaving us nothing to debate.
So, Crackjob, you do see a difference? Oddly, that’s not what was implied in your previous post. Try saying what you mean, it’s much more clear that way.
To clarify, crackjob, I find it preposterous that you would find it absurd to compare the blogs. Now, if that’s all I say, you have no idea why I think it, or what exactly is preposterous about it, and no matter what you come back with, I can claim my motivation for the original post was whatever. If I don’t clearly state what I mean, it’s an open ended and baited comment.
Oh, this has gotten VERY interesting. While I agree that Harlan has made an appalling series of bad choices (I’ve been here since the beginning, I just quit commenting in favor of mostly lurking), I’m distressed that this incredible thread has evolved as a result of Harlan apparently crashing and burning.
So sue me - I’m a bleeding heart, too.
I don’t know a lot about OCD, or depression, other than learning from a friend about the difference between temporary depression and clinical depression. But from the start, it has seemed to me that there is something *very* wrong with Harlan. And yes, he has shown himself as everything that I, and apparently many of you, find childish, selfish, and - unforgivable?
Comparing what has happened to Harlan to terminal cancer is tricky, imop. Cancer arrives, unbidden, unwelcome, terrifying. Mental illness does the same. But to an outsider’s view, the person with mental illness is still physically healthy, just *acting like a total asshole*. God knows that’s true of our Harlan.
As for the Is It/Isn’t it True aspect of the blog - no one knows for sure. And we won’t, will we, until/unless “Harlan” comes clean and terminates this sick experiment himself. Me, I think we’ve been witnesses to the human train wreck I hoped would not happen.
I admit I am interested to see what, if anything, is posted here next…
Briget, wish I could have written that myself. Well said.
Harlan, if you’re out there and reading this, hope we hear from you soon. And if you need help, hope you’re turning to the right places for it. Best wishes.
Lilly you are a self-centered, nasty assed BITCH. You sit there criticizing anyone and everything and don’t give a damn about anyone. You sit at your computer all day and night, all 500 pounds of you, making the rounds at various blogs to spread your hate and venom. IF YOU DON’T LIKE IT, IF YOU DON’T BELIEVE IT - GET THE FUCK OUT!
The fact you choose to stay JUST to constantly spout the ignorant bullshit that comes from your keyboard means you are more than likely fucked up more than anyone here. You only WISH someone would even care if you decided to end it, and the fact no one would makes you even bat-shit crazier about coming to tell us all how fake this is.
Take your lazy, fat-assed ignorant ass to some other blog. Oh, that’s right. You won’t. Because you have nothing better to do. My bad.
Wow, I have friends visiting from 3 different places in,
the world. ALL via the internet. They are a pleasure,
then to come here and read what Richard has written ‘, and the
comments - some are so heartless, and I’m with whoever
said, ‘ until we know and have met Harlan, call me
whatever you want, I choose to believe in him - I hope
you will be back Harlan, Love to the ‘bleeding’ hearts.
and I won’t pass judgement on others who for whatever reason, still want to put the nail in t the coffin.
I sure don’t. Just stop - it doesn’t help.
Get better Harlan.
I hope you come back.
I just came out of lurkdom to say
LILY IS THE GREATEST! She is one of the reasons I keep coming here to read. She tells the truth based on what Harlan has written as fact here. I swear the ones who keep disagreeing are either blind or just plain stupid.
Lily sorry you’re fighting breast cancer. Based on what you write you seem to be a fighter and I hope your outcome is great.You seem to have a a great sense of humor and like somebody who doesn’t take any crap and I really like that. Good luck and keep on writing here.I come here every day to see what you and a few others have said and after agreeing I usually laugh out loud.
whydontyouleave - YOU need to leave and take that stick out of your fat ass then shut the fuck up. You wouldn’t even think about a 500 pound ass unless you had one yourself. Oh that’s right you won’t because you have nothing better to do.You’ll just keep changing your name here. My bad.
But seriously, AIDS (from “Richard’s” Captain Happy).
It’s quite obvious that either “Richard” is fake or someone else has posted in his “name”.
Why bother with what? I would assume (assume makes an ass out of you and me) he means his life. I never really understood suicidal people. Now, homicidal people, I can relate to. I guess suicidal people hate themselves, and homicidal people hate others.
OK, SO WHO KNOWS WHAT HARLAN’S TRUTH IS. i AM SORRY HE HASN’T BEEN WRITING AND I HOPE HE’S OK. HAVE A DAUGHTER WITH A MENTAL DISORDER, I CAN TELL YOU LIVING IT, BEING WITH IT, AND ALL THAT AND ALL WHOM IT AFFECTS IS JUST AS ROUGH AND HARD AS CANCER. BECAUSE IN THE END, YOU CAN NEVER KNOW IF THE MENTAL DISORDER WILL RESULT IN SUICIDE, DRUG OD, ETC. So for all you fucks out there, yes, I am talking to YOU JOE, who criticize or what ever, go write your own blog, or stop commenting here. Because until you walk in someone’s shoes, or walk in their family’s shoes, you can can’t possibly incredibly know what pain and heart ache and horrible shit they are living through. Hence, laras life, cause it’s really lousy because I have a child who has gone from doctor to doctor without finding any relief and I live each day wondering if she will ever get to the point where she ends it all like her grandfather did.
All, I spoke with ‘Harlan’ on Saturday. We had lunch at the cafe where he is staying. He appears to be doing ok. The Dr. said that he was not taking the correct amount of meds. This is has been adjusted. ‘Harlan’ has decided to stop writing here at soveryalone.com. He wanted me to leave you all with the following.
“The fact to which we have got to cling, as to a lifebelt, is that it is possible to be a normal decent person and yet be fully alive.”
No, Shame On You, what is ignorant is Lilly coming here over and over with her comments of how fake Harlan is, even going so far to tell everyone his suicide attempt was fake and then laugh about it. You even said yourself “but I don’t think it is necessary for you to call him names and degrade him on a daily basis…You are here to be mean from behind the safety of your computer. In real life, you probably swallow all of your anger towards people…” In case you haven’t heard, the type of person you are can cause many things. If you are filled with animosity, guilt, hate, anger, jealousy, etc. your immune system can be compromised. Ask any Asian healer ;)
Thank you for the update Richard. He is doing better, that is a great relief. Please let him know that several of us are thinking about him and wishing him the best, even us lurkers.
“Richard” if that’s what Harlan really said, his medication needs to be adjusted again, because that doesn’t make any sense. However, it does have the psuedo-spriritual/intellectual ring of someone smoking A LOT of pot…which makes me wonder what type of ‘clinic’ Harlan’s in.
Yeah, as last words go, those really weren’t so great. They sound more like something Bertha would say, after smoking a lot of pot. Richard, could you please ask him to come up with something a little more inciteful?
Unmedicated Harlan was a pretty fun but lonely guy. He was lonely and insecure but he enjoyed his geeky life and seemed to enjoy his video games, sci fi, movies and stuff. Sure he felt isolated but he was also FUNNY. His blog was often hilarious and insightful without even trying.
Medicated he seems to have become angry, sometimes boorish and now suicidal.
Stating the obvious I’ve gotta say: ‘the drugs don’t work’. Do they?
And in my opinion this is not an isolated case.
‘Harlan’, best of luck for the future if you are really out there.
‘Richard’, pass on my good wishes and thank Harlan for some class entertainment.
Asshat, Leland, Lilly et al. thanks also. this was a great blog
I am not really “Richard” I am Dade. I made all that shit up hoping to brign Harlan out of hiding. But see how easy it is?
I do hope that Harlan comes back soon.. so as far as I know Harlan never tried taking is own life… it was not meant to be a joke.. it was meant to make him blog again.. sorry =(
I have lived a long, long time, and I have very little tolerence for ‘bleeding hearts’ as a rule. If the situation is not a result of an individual’s actions, of course we should give all the compassion and support we can muster. However, when a person is in a situation of their own making, it is not productive. Is making bad and selfish choices a mental illness? It sure wasn’t in my day. When you did something wrong, you paid for it. Your actions were not tolerated. No one said ‘poor baby’, you were told to clean it up and never do it again. So you did. No excuses, no medications. It was a learning exercise.
There are too many excuses made today for wrong decisions. Nothing is our fault Nothing is our childrens fault. We didn’t know. The teacher is picking on them. We weren’t told. The list is endless.
We want to be happy. And most of all we want our children to be happy. Does making excuses for inappropriate behavior make us happy? I don’t think so. I think doing the right thing, making the right choices and feeling good about it is what makes us happy. And when we make the wrong choices, we should be held to task. We will be very unhappy about it at the time, but the next time, and the time after, hopefully we will have learned to make the right choices.
I don’t think ‘Harlan’ ever learned to make the right choices. Is he too old to learn? I don’t know. Do medications help you learn to make the right ones? I don’t know. But I do know this, tolerating, and making excuses for bad behavior is not working in our society today. Just look around you.
You are wasting your time. You’ll be told you are a mean person for expecting Harlan to actually change in order to be happy. After all, he CAN’T change, he just CAN’T.
Anyway, I do hope to see some sort of update. He’s a train wreck for sure, but he’s entertaining at least. As are all the comments, but one can only take this so far after all.
Wait, so if Harlan isn’t dead or in a psych ward, it probably means he got caught again trying to steal dildos in a way that would foil a strip-search.
Ok, not to comment on the sheer idiocy of the majority of these comments, I have chosen not to comment at all until now.
However, just as a bit of blogging FYI, The owner of the blog neither changes nor has any control over the sidebar ads. They change automatically in accordance with the content of the page. Comments included. So yes, with every comment there is the chance of the sidebar ad changing.
It’s me “Harlan” and Leland guessed it. I’m in jail, serving time for stealing dildo’s and blow up dolls at the local sex shop. I couldn’t resist the dolls because they look just like my sister. “Richard” if you read this please tell “Jane” I’m sorry and not to worry becasue she looks a lot like my sister, too. I’m adding Viagra to my meds so that Mr. Floppy will become Mr. Happy when I see her. I hope she doesn’t forget that WE HAVE A RELATIONSHIP!!
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…..AND that Jane is really his mother, who is very much alive. Harlan realizes his sister is the sane one and ups his meds, again. He then goes to Walmart, steals some condoms (he had to really search to find petite’s) and heads over to Bertha’s determined that this time his weener will stand up to the task. When he reaches her door he hears loud music and is pretty sure that she is having a party. He knocks, the door opens and he sees his brother, sister-in-law, Jane, Bertha, Christian Girl, Richard, Mr. Happy, Fed-Ex girl AND Porche Guy. Suddenly……
…Christian Girl starts praying, brother and sister-in-law run for the hills, Jane hides behind a plant, Richard and Mr. Happy jump in the dryer, “Harlan” starts…..
bicycle to have sex with. After a wild afternoon of handle bars and brake cables, Harlan falls asleep exhausted. He awakens in his apartment and is grateful it was all a dream. He rolls over and kisses Bertha sweetly on the cheek. The stubble on her cheek tickle his lips and he smiles.
“hehe” Harlan thinks to himself. “I am the luckiest man alive” A rumble which sounds a bit think thunder explodes from the under the sheets just then Harlan…
…announces that in order to complete his revenge, he has spread a lethal virus through his blog that will destroy our software and will cause to us Diarrhea for the next 12 months. Then…
.. Harlan realizes that he messed up again and gave himself Diarrhea, hense the rumble in the sheets. Harlan crawls out of bed, just then the phone rings..
and it’s his probation officer reminding him that he must to community service. ‘harlan’ chooses to volunteer at the local hair removal salon. He consideres himself a master as he’s been shaving Bertha for months now. Although, when he chats with her about his decision she……
there was a LOUD knock on the door. “H” rushes to see who it is and finds Porche Guy standing there. PG throws his arms around ‘Harlan’ and professes his love for him, explaining the reason for the ‘dropped smile’ comment was to get his attention. Bertha comes flying into the room, sees the men embracing and…….
In the shocked silence, no one noticed Richard stepping through the doorway, or his look of horror at seeing his new boyfriend wrapped in Harlans arms…
Harlan’s mother in Alienesque fashion emerges out of Bertha’s hairy chest. Stunned Harlan passes out. When he awakes he is relieved it was all a dream. He rolls over, kisses his parole office sweetly on the cheek and falls back asleep.
Harlan’s mother in Alienesque fashion emerges out of Bertha’s hairy chest. Stunned Harlan passes out. When he awakes he is relieved it was all a dream. He rolls over, kisses his parole office sweetly on the cheek and falls back asleep.
Harlan, I choose to believe that you, indeed, are very
real - to me you always will be - If and when you are ready - I am one to hope that you will say Hi again.
I also have a sense of haha, however, I can’t help but
feel that this is very real, and although I agree with
so many of the comments - I also believe that Harlan,
indeed, is real, has some serious psychological problems,
I was hoping the Celexa would work - however, you never
answered how much you were taking Harlan. I do believe
that Harlan is one of those who may fall through the cracks, and if there are people out there in the medical
world, doing their jobs, (or even with his court catastrophe) they will pick up on this.
I can hope, just as I can hope that all of you have a heart - and for all of the naysayers, just for one moment, consider how many people have the exact same
problems (or close to) Harlan’s. They need help and
support, not people berating them. They already berate
themselves enough.
To some of you, it’s been a joy to see that in this
de-sensitized world, there are stil people who care.
To Harlan, wherever you are - you are an exceptional
writer, amongst other things - use that talent!
I bet in a week, there will be no more comments, except for:
A) Completely new people
B) People who used to read this blog (ex. 3 months ago)
C) People who want to smite my prediction.
‘Harlan’ I am very old. I would hate going to my grave not knowing if you are real or an experiment in writing. Please send me an email before it’s too late. Thanks.
For the Author, this blog has been an exercise in how gullible people can be. If ‘Harlan’ has even an ounce of decorum, he’ll be back to tell the truth. However, it would be much more ‘H’-like to cowardly fade away into cyberland allowing his supporters to continue to repeat themselves and incorrectly assume that because the ney-sayers don’t believe ‘H’, we are insensitive and non-supportive to people suffering from mental illness.
Because you have an audience
Because we don’t have the guts to blow our brains out.
Why not?
Life without challenge is meaningless.
Hmm. Hmmmmm. Hmmm. Ohhhh! *presses blow up the world button*
NO. NO.
Right!
Here come the comments from the Bleeding Hearts Club!
I’m in a club? Sweet baby jebus…you do love me.
B.H. Club 2008 unite y’all! WOOOT!
Does that mean you’re leaving us?
Because you won a bloggie.
Because nobody pisses Lilly off with such vigor.
Because you’ll leave those of us too lazy to blog for ourselves with nothing to do.
Because it’s possible that the alternative is even worse.
We’re already here. May as well make the most of it
Because steak and chip exist
dont bother.
because it doesn’t matter. nothing matters so why not do it anyway.
i don’t know, does harlan ever talk with any of you guys? does he just like an audience or does he really want to find something in his life. i wonder if he thinks that hes life start making a turn for the better people will stop reading this none sense and in fact leave him completely alone. i don’t know am asking.
thats not to say i know the answer to “why bother”. but i most certainly try. even though sometimes i feel just like you do.
if this blog is an attempt to reach out i think its not working the way it should…
you should see what you have accomplished and gain strength from the fact that at least you have the freedom and ability to do what you want.
its not like things work out all the time for me, but when they do it’s a great feeling.
quit wishing for shit and go for it. what do you have to loose anyway, is not like your life is worth very much at this time is it?
Go Herb. Woot, Ms. Ju.
Because, Harlan, just like everybody else, your chemicals ebb and flow and will ebb again, etc.
Ride it out.
too true Fran. This is just a blip Harlan.
Because I want to collect the prize money Amy’s offering.
Because you never explained why you hate doorbells.
Because you’ve collected for yourself a core team of weirdos who read this thing every day.
Go to your doctor and get your medication adjusted, Harlan. Call tomorrow.
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Oh, you just meant, “why bother” with the blog…..
I thought you were SCREAMING for help. Sorry, my mistake.
Because you never know what tomorrow brings.
That is why.
Because you’ll be glad you did.
Because I want you around.
Because some people actually believe in you.
Because I said so.
Because every time I think you can’t possible fuck things up any worse, you find a way to do it. And you ignore with great success any suggestions that might actually make things better. You can’t buy entertainment like that.
That being said, it’s your call, we are masters of our own destiny, and we live by the choices we make.
Joe
Because I am working really hard to be coronated the official motherfuckett of this blog.
I’m not sure I’m on the right track here, but if so, Harlan is one clever, cryptic guy. You see, if you unscramble the letters of his title — The Hard Question — you get what must be a personal message to Lilly. It says: End Her Shit Quota!
I like that interpretation better than some of the other anagrammatic possibilities.
1. Harsh quote: End It.
2. Hi. On Hatred Quest.
and
3. Hah. Do quit, Ernest!
Because I wish I had as many readers as you do.
Wordsmithereens = Oh weird Ms Ernest
Good one. I can’t decide on the right counter. Let’s just go with
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See what tomorrow brings. It can always get worse.
Harlan, you know there is so much I want to tell you that I would never post here. But right now, what I want you to do is look at the pie on my blog.
It looks like a shit pie. But Harlan, I wish you could have a taste. It is so good and I just made it up. When you write, it’s like my pie.
Please bother.
Why not?
Oh, and if you don’t keep going, we’ll never figure out how you got the meds, or what psychological condition you had to get them. Depression? Bipolar? Some anxiety disorder? ESOLN needs this information to stop sounding like a complete ass, you must help him!
Joe
We eat Amy’s shit pie =
Sheee, Amy is a twit.
Are you okay??
If your that bad off, please see a doctor immediatly, people can can slip deep into a back hole of depression, but there is help out there for you. I think all the posters here are just teasing you in good fun because you have a good sense of humor. If they did not think you could take it or laugh at it they would not bother to troll you.
Get help if you need it, please….
Seriously Harlan, get a grip. If you were dealing with brain cancer (as is someone’s wife in another blog I read daily) this on and on woe wiz me might make some sense. Your life isn’t horrible, don’t take it for granted. Yes, you’ve been a total shithead for quite a few of your posts, but the good news is, unlike someone with terminal brain cancer, you can decide to make it better.
Will you? Doubtful, but we’ll see.
Joe
We all occasionally fall into the trap of contemplating the futility of it all, but then we have to get a grip and keep going. Sometimes that seems daunting or downright impossible, but as people have already stated, it’s better than the alternative. Besides, when you manage to see beyond the fog of hopelessness, you’ll find that life isn’t as meaningless as you thought. I know chemical imbalances don’t help anything, but there is medication for that; if Celexa isn’t working, find something else. And beyond that, life is what we make it. No amount of medication is going to make you happy if you keep doing things that will unavoidably make you miserable. Please, Harlan, do good things and life will be good to you.
Bothered = The Bored
Like I’m one to talk. I spent too much of my morning with this one:
Medicated Harlan = Can’t idle drama, eh?
Seriously, Harlan, hope you can calibrate your way to positive outlook again soon.
Does anyone else think its weird that every comment is longer than this weak, little post? COME ON.
(note: I know that mine is also longer than the post UGH-H!)
Hey! Wish you would give an update. Things lookin’ up yet? Most of the people here actually care, H - and at the least, they care enough to pop in and check on you. That’s gotta count for something, right?
Because you gotta earn your money; so spread your legs bitch.
Oh no Leland, watch out! ESOLN, king of assholery and master of fucksticks, will now be forced to lecture you about poor, blameless, ‘H’.
Come on ESOLN - we know you’re reading and chomping at the bit, while remaining COMPLETELY composed.
*wink, wink*
Things can get better but you have to work at it. It doesn’t happen by itself.
I’m still waiting for ESOLN to tell me how he determined that Harlan gets the benefit of the doubt on some sort of imbalance, just because he scored some feel good drug, and yet Lilly and I are simply “assholes”
Selective morality, I LOVE it.
Joe
Still checkin’ in with ya, H. I hope today is better than yesterday!
To all:
I have spoke with ‘Harlan’ he is not well. In fact he tried to take his own life on Tuesday. I don’t think he will be coming back here anytime soon, if at all. I just thought everyone here would like to know. I will try to keep everyone posted with what I know. He really wont talk to me to much. I found out from ‘Jane’
“Richard”
Hope everything is alright, and the Harlan gets some help to get through all this.
so your readership is down and you know nobody believes so you resort to this? WTF is wrong wit h you dude.
Find another experiement. You took this one way to far.
Hmmmmmm…
I agree with anythingforattenion. Harlan is an attention whore. Stay tuned he’ll be back with another fantasy.
Apparently, he even fucked that up. Seriously, if ANYONE is still buying that this is real life? Please.
Keep em comin H.
Joe
You’re fucking kidding me! If you’re considering ever writing another word on this blog, you have to change the name to So Very Full of Shit.
Seriously.
Those of you who are so high and mighty to think that you can be sure this person is not in serious trouble, I hope you can live with yourself when/if you find out that this is for real and you sent a mentally ill person further over the edge.
Nice.
Yes, “Richard,” please keep us “posted.” Regards to Captain Happy.
If you dont post something with some substance within the next day your website is going to make its way off of my bookmarks.
Anybody who believes this douchebag is a bigger douchebag.
Oh, boo, hoo. What a crock of shit.
Hey now…no matter what you think, there is always that slim chance that Harlan is real and that he is someone out there in serious need of help. How can you people live with yourselves? You must be those who yell up to that suicidal person to jump just as the police are trying to talk the person down off the ledge. Your setting yourself up with some bad Karma…
Richard, keep us posted if you can please.
you know what. if people want to go and kill themselves, who i am to say don’t do it.
even if this blog where to be fake. it illustrates a valid point, its hard to show compassion to those that have none. i check this blog ever so often out of curiosity…
i like reading the comments people leave, either caring or sarcastic, and the best part is how he for the most part ignores most of them.
well it seems he at least got to talk to jane again, so i guess the suicide attempt was worth it. there is no way they end up together though, cause no one loves a perpetual wanker.
and about all those bleeding hearts out there. you can’t help someone that doesn’t want to help themselves. so let everyone’s consciousness remain guilt free.
Longest. Wait. Ever.
Its the easiest thing in the world for people who can’t stop long enough to care about someone other than themselves to say “Screw ‘em. Why should I care?”
If you think he’s a fake, why come back here at all? Just to torture him? You’re pathetic.
I’m not a bleeding heart. I am currently doing nothing to help Harlan. But at least I have the decency to not taunt him like a child.
Look, continue to walk around the world caring about no one but yourself, but just have the decency to leave this person alone.
To all the bleeding hearts-
As I have mentioned before, I follow another blog where the posters wife is dying from terminal brain cancer. After years of fighting various forms of cancer, it has now gone to her brain, and she is literally fighting for her life. She has 4 children, and a loving husband, this makes me sad, and I truly wish for the best for her and her family whatever the outcome.
Then we have clepto boy here, who lies, and cares not for anyone but himself. Nothing for society, nor anyone who doesn’t in some way make him feel better. He constantly makes decisions based only on his own needs and wants, and rarely if ever considers how it will effect anyone else, or society. Lo and behold he ends up miserable and might even be contemplating suicide, if one is to believe this blog. I have no pity for someone who lives in a state of self pity and denial about reality. My feelings of empathy are reserved for those with REAL illness, not poor choice after poor choice leading to what would naturally be a depressed state (depression, real depression doesn’t come from external stimuli, it is present no matter how good or bad things get, Harlan is a whiney bitch, but if he is truly depressed, it’s due to his choices in life, not to some chemical in his brain).
So, while I do indeed have compassion, I reserve it for those I feel deserve it. Judge me as you see fit, for I care not one ounce what you think, as I make my choices clearly in my own mind after careful consideration, and am not led by blind faith in anyone or anything.
Joe
I find it shocking that I am even bothering here. I think ‘Harlan’ fucked up killing himself on purpose. ‘Harlan’ is/was crying out for help. Rather you believe any of this to be true does not matter. The fact is there is a person out there that needs help. Seems for the most part he is not going to get it from here. Thank you to the far and few people who actaully care. Bleeding Hearts?? You think people are bleedings hearts because, they care rather someone is dead or alive? They are care because someone is in so much pain they want to end their own life? Even if this is all a story, there is truth behind ever lie. For those of you who still do care, please send some prayers his way.
“Richard”
Touche Joe!
I follow that same blog and as heartbreaking as it is, I find the writer, Susan, their family & friends to be an incredible inspiration. You see, I found it through Lance Armstrong because I am currently fighting breast cancer.
I am extremely compassionate, to those who are deserving. I not only have no compassion for this idiot, I haven’t an ounce of respect for him. In fact, he’s lower than pond scum.
Oh and the reason I come here was purely for entertainment purposes, which it provided in the beginning. He’s now more than crossed the line in making a complete mockery of those with mental illness. Using this to gain attention is disgusting and thankfully, not working very well.
Shame On You/ESOLN: I believe you’re sincere and have a good heart, but honestly - open your eyes, the facts are overwhelming that he is completely full of shit. Every time you respond I feel that you’re providing him with another check-mark in the ‘I got ‘em’ category.
Find someone who is sincerely in need of your kindness and understanding and please stop assuming that Joe and I are ignorant and/or arrogant. You couldn’t be more mistaken.
‘Richard’…give it up!
Exactly, Richard.
Joe,
“depression, real depression doesn’t come from external stimuli, it is present no matter how good or bad things get, Harlan is a whiney bitch, but if he is truly depressed, it’s due to his choices in life, not to some chemical in his brain”
Really, DOCTOR? Wow. How can you be so sure?
Mental illness, by definition, concerns people who behave with “self-pity” and “denial of reality”. They don’t seem to care about others because they don’t seem to care about themselves.
You, deciding here on this board, that a cancer patient is more deserving of love and understanding than a person dealing with severe depression caused by an uncontrollable chemical balance in the brain is a sad commentary on humanity, in my view.
Who are you to judge?
Lilly,
Until the day that you can tell me that you have met Harlan and have spoken to him long enugh to know for sure that he is full of shit, then clearly we are all just going with our gut, here.
I am no more sure than you are, either way, but I don’t think it is necessary for you to call him names and degrade him on a daily basis.
I’m sure you will continue. Because that’s “just you”, right? You are not here trying to defend the rights of truth and justice. You are here to be mean from behind the safety of your computer.
In real life, you probably swallow all of your anger towards people because you can’t risk saying what you really think because people would think you are a bad person.
You’re so brave, Lilly.
“Richard” said, ‘Even if this is all a story, there is truth behind every lie’. Thanks for commenting “Richard”. Many of us have believed that statement all along, so I hope you can understand why we’re so leery to accept anything as truth.
I’ve been entertained by all of “Harlan’s” posts and enjoyed the banter from all of the amazing commenters here. I’ll miss everyone if this blog indeed ends.
“Harlan” - I’m not sure what to say to you. If you’re truly crying out for help, then, please follow through and get that help. Start making the right choices. You know what they are. On the other side of the coin; if, you are just doing this for attention….then, I’m the fool. Good luck in life, “Harlan”.
I can’t believe that y’all are naive enough to believe this. I salute every one of the ney sayers and agree that Harlan stepped over the line with this story.
ESOLN: If continually calling the kettle black is the way you can justify what you’re doing, all the power to ya. although, why change your name in the midst of this if you consider you’re so ‘brave’?
You accuse Joe of seeing a cancer patient as being more deserving of love and compassion than a person suffering with mental illness. Again, would you please breathe, relax and READ what is being said here. That couldn’t be further from the truth. Obviously, Joe has compassion for people with mental illness. It’s people like ‘Harlan’ that most everyone on this board has no compassion for. He’s either a dishonest, stealing, cheating, disloyal, disrespectful, shameless, accusatory, loser or someone unsuccessfully making the attempt to create a story by making a mockery out of mental illness.
Now that’s brave, wouldn’t you say?
Shame on You
I love it how you “Doctor” tell me that harlan has a chemical imbalance. In fact, harlan has a “taking responsability” imbalance. Find me ONE post where he has admitted wrongdoing and felt sorry for it (Not sorry for getting caught, not sorry because of a shitty outcome, but genuine sorrow for lying/stealing).
I have no respect for him because he has no respect for anyone. And yes, crazy as it may indeed sound to you, a cancer patient gets my respect, while our whiney little bitch H here does not.
Oh, and as to the “Swallow your words” bullshit you just tossed at Lilly, I’d tell Harlan every single thing I’ve said here to his face, and I’m pretty damn sure she would too. Bad people are those who defend wrong actions, such as stealing and lying, and not being accountable for ones actions. That’s not me by the way I read it. The truth is what it is, like it or not.
Joe
“In fact, harlan has a “taking responsability” imbalance”.
Oh, how very Republican of you. Judge away there, judgey.
My point remains…you do not know him, I do not know him, Lilly does not know him. Whether you would or would not tell him these things to his face or not, you will likely never get the chance so WHY DO YOU BOTHER WITH HIM? Just for sport, maybe?
You take a person’s words and feelings when they are telling you that they are at their deepest level of pain and you decide who you think that they are and punish them for it. How can you be sure that Harlan doesn’t hate himself for everything that he is that you despise?
I’d bet you he does.
Shame on YOU-
It’s a blog. If our buddy H here want’s us to know how he feels about something, he can write it. And the Republican thing is a total riot. I believe in taking resposability for one’s actions, that’s the price of freedom, and doesn’t have a thing to do with politics. I’m all for programs that help people, and I’ve argued several times that the divide in this country between the haves and the have nots is far out of kilter. Oh, and did you happen to notice that Harlan is going to VOTE republican too? I found that quite interesting.
I’m not punishing anyone. I’m typing my outlook and opinions on a blog, that’s what blogs are for. Harlan is sharing his outlooks, and we are responding. You don’t like the way I respond, and I don’t think your take is accurate either. Guess what? That’s the way it is. That’s why discussion exists, and you KEEP dodging my questions. I asked you very simply how you determined there was an imbalance when not one word of a diagnosis, or psych visit, or Dr. visit for that matter has been posted on the site. For all we know Harlan got the happy pills from a street vendor. You come back with numerous attacks on me, but never once consider that.
If Harlan hates himself, he has a very odd way of expressing it, for example, anytime someone calls him on his bad behavior, if he truly didn’t like himself he might say “I know, I should not act this way, and I need to try to change” Instead he says things like “you shouldn’t breed” or “who are you to tell me to smile”. All things that make me thing he’s just happy as hell being miserable.
Joe
Joe, I get it. Harlan is miserable. Why he is miserable is clearly up for speculation. I’m not dodging your questions. I’ll say it again…
YOU do not know if there is an imbalance just like I do not know if there is an imbalance. I am taking him at his word, in a forum, over the internet. Whether I believe him or not, I choose not to push his buttons or be mean to him for my own, sick pleasure.
The kicker is, I don’t really care for Harlan’s views and opinions. For example, I think his reasons for voting Republican are juvenile and mis informed. All of that is irrelevant to me, however.
He appears to be a person in trouble. Any compassionate person would either try to help him or leave him alone.
Well said SOY
Shame on You-
So, let me get this straight. You admit to not knowing if Harlan has an imbalance, about 10 posts after slamming me for picking on someone who clearly has an imbalance. You then proceed to diagnose me as having some sort of imbalance, because I have slammed Harlan for making poor choice after poor choice.
Now you claim to be trying to help him? Exactly how is you, encouraging that he continue along his current path, helping him?
Saying nice things to someone who constantly pushes pins in his eye and then complains about it hurting won’t make him stop pushing pins in his eye. Yelling at people who are telling him it’s idiotic to keep sticking pins in his eye, will do nothing to help him either. Harlan has been jamming pins into his eyes for several months here, and I’ve said it’s a stupid thing to do. Anytime anyone tells him it’s a bad thing to do, he simply degrades them, or yells at them, or calls them heartless, and the starts jamming the pins right back in.
Somehow, those of you who are telling him if he just keeps doing what he’s doing, things will get better, also have yourselves convinced you’re HELPING. That is the craziest thing of all.
I never claimed to be trying to help, or hurt, Harlan, I just comment on what I see. That is, after all, what a blog is for.
Joe
You are twisting my words.
I believe that Harlan PROBABLY has an imbalance. Not sure, though, ’cause I’ve never met the guy. Have you? Oh, that’s right….you haven’t.
I didn’t accuse you of having an imbalance, although I’m coming close to making that call. (just got my PhD abut ten minutes ago…)
I already told you that I am not trying to help Harlan.
I am also not attempting to make it worse.
about
I like how reading fatcyclist.com automatically makes you more apt to decide whether someone’s crisis is “legitimate” or not.
And by the way, Joe, I don’t really take issue with most of what you say. You, like me, are expressing your opinion and that’s fine.
But when you say that you are not trying to HURT or HELP Harlan, I think you’d better take a deeper look because last time I checked, calling someone “a whiny bitch” is not very nice and probably hurtful to just about anyone.
Joe (and Lilly) ~
I said all I had to say to you two and I had no intention of continuing with this conversation. You have a hard heart and I can’t change that.
But since you seem to think you are continuing with our conversation via Shame on You, I decided to try one more time. *sigh*
I think one of your (many) problems on this blog, Joe (and Lilly) is that you can’t keep the players straight. Shame on You is not me. I am not she. Get it? Two different people. We comment separately as two separate people with our own opinions. Here’s a hint for you to help you keep it straight - we have different names.
I said that I think H has a chemical imbalance. I am not a doctor. I could be wrong, but I based that on the fact that he’s obviously not “normal” and does a lot of wonky things, AND a professional (we don’t know if it was a GP or a psychiatrist because he never said), put him on medication. I don’t know the diagnosis, and contrary to what you accused me of, I didn’t assign one. Again, I’m not a doctor. But he was put on Celexa, which I believe is for depression. Granted, he may have been misdiagnosed, but I am not in a position to determine that.
A mental disorder is just as valid as a physical disorder or disease. You and Lilly apparently choose to disregard it as a bunch of bullshit. Go ahead. Mental illness has always carried a stigma among the ignorant. Sadly, it probably always will.
I don’t know if H is for real and I never said he was. However, I don’t KNOW that he’s NOT. Kicking a guy when he’s down (or may be down) is a pretty shitty, dirty thing to do. I don’t do it. But that’s just me.
Your interpretation of “what a blog is for” is actually only your opinion. I doubt if there are very many bloggers who post about their personal lives because they are trying to illicit your opinion. I think you overestimate your importance, Joe. There are as many reasons for a blog as there are people.
Lilly - I’m sorry you’re fighting breast cancer. Good luck.
Shame on You - you’re just wasting your time. It seems to me that Joe just likes to fight, and he can’t let it go and just agree to disagree.
Richard - thanks for the update.
H - just keep trying, and get the appropriate help. This blog can’t substitute for the help of a good psychologist and psychiatrist. I wish you the best. People can change if they want to and they get the right help.
ESOLN and I tend to agree, but I am not him.
I can prove it. I’m a girl. With a nice rack.
See? Totally different people.
While Harlan was passed out from all the sleeping pills he took, my Captain Happy rammed him in the bunghole.
I don’t know where Joe got the idea that I’m a guy, but I’m a girl, too.
I do like to argue, I find it enjoyable, as one only truly comes to an understanding of a position when he must defend it with reason.
Now on to crackjob- I find it truly astonishing that terminal cancer can be compared this blog. What was Harlans biggest recent tradgedy? Was it the wolverine incident? Or perhaps getting smacked in the mouth after pushing mr “be happy”
And this compares, in your mind, to terminal brain cancer? A MAZ ING.
Might I be blessed with the worst thing happening to me be anything that has happened to Harlan, rather than what has happened to Susan.
Oh, and to share a little about my personal life, I know quite a bit about both OCD and Depression, as well as the drugs for treating both, my daughter has OCD, and has taken Zoloft, and now is taking Prozac. Her decisions are getting better, but it was a struggle to get her to accept the consequences of her actions (poor choices) in the past, this is getting better. But, it never would have gotten better if she hadn’t learned making those wrong choices had a lot to do with her being unhappy. It’s a hard lesson, and even harder when battling a psychological issue that clouds the perception.
I would expect if her decision making remained where it was when she was about 5, she’d have a life very similar to Harlan. Harlan is STILL making those types of decisions.
Think what you will, but I’ll tell you flat out, I’ve never shed a tear for Harlan, since he’s made his own bed time and time again. A terminal cancer patient on the other had, can and has brought me to tears (not just Susan). Take it or leave it. With the freedom to choose one’s path, comes the responsibility for that path.
Joe
Ah, finally the “stiff” manservant gets to play a part.
Joe, dude - *you* are the one who is comparing Fatty’s blog to this one. I’m merely pointing out how absurd I find that comparison.
and there you have it. Thanks “Richard”
We really should start our own message board somewhere.
Regardless of whether we agree or disagree, you guys are turning out to be pretty interesting characters and it appears as though Harlan has dropped from circulation all together, leaving us nothing to debate.
Olive branch?
You beat me to the punch SOY, I was going to suggest the same thing. The comment section on this blog has been the best thing going!
So, Crackjob, you do see a difference? Oddly, that’s not what was implied in your previous post. Try saying what you mean, it’s much more clear that way.
Joe
Shame on You- There will always be something to debate. :) That’s the beauty of it all.
Joe
My post was written exactly as I intended it. You woefully misinterpreted it. I won’t hold it against you.
To clarify, crackjob, I find it preposterous that you would find it absurd to compare the blogs. Now, if that’s all I say, you have no idea why I think it, or what exactly is preposterous about it, and no matter what you come back with, I can claim my motivation for the original post was whatever. If I don’t clearly state what I mean, it’s an open ended and baited comment.
Joe
If we do it, I’m changing my name to SOY BOMB. :)
(I may have just shown my age.)
Ha! Just as I suspected - Joe would argue about arguing.
Okay then! Good luck with that!
All this is so boring…………..
Anon -
How do you find this boring? There is a fantastic cast of characters here with a lot of wit - I find it fascinating.
SOY(BOMB) - awesomeness!
Yeah, this blog may be a lot of things … but boring ain’t one of ‘em. ….
Thanks, bird.
:)
Just to clarify - the name “soybomb” is awesome - I don’t necessarily agree with everything you’ve said - but that’s just an opinion, right?
Totally.
No agreement necessary, bird. You know what they say about opinions…
Oh, this has gotten VERY interesting. While I agree that Harlan has made an appalling series of bad choices (I’ve been here since the beginning, I just quit commenting in favor of mostly lurking), I’m distressed that this incredible thread has evolved as a result of Harlan apparently crashing and burning.
So sue me - I’m a bleeding heart, too.
I don’t know a lot about OCD, or depression, other than learning from a friend about the difference between temporary depression and clinical depression. But from the start, it has seemed to me that there is something *very* wrong with Harlan. And yes, he has shown himself as everything that I, and apparently many of you, find childish, selfish, and - unforgivable?
Comparing what has happened to Harlan to terminal cancer is tricky, imop. Cancer arrives, unbidden, unwelcome, terrifying. Mental illness does the same. But to an outsider’s view, the person with mental illness is still physically healthy, just *acting like a total asshole*. God knows that’s true of our Harlan.
As for the Is It/Isn’t it True aspect of the blog - no one knows for sure. And we won’t, will we, until/unless “Harlan” comes clean and terminates this sick experiment himself. Me, I think we’ve been witnesses to the human train wreck I hoped would not happen.
I admit I am interested to see what, if anything, is posted here next…
Y A W N ! ! ! !
Briget-
nicely said :)
Briget, wish I could have written that myself. Well said.
Harlan, if you’re out there and reading this, hope we hear from you soon. And if you need help, hope you’re turning to the right places for it. Best wishes.
Lilly you are a self-centered, nasty assed BITCH. You sit there criticizing anyone and everything and don’t give a damn about anyone. You sit at your computer all day and night, all 500 pounds of you, making the rounds at various blogs to spread your hate and venom. IF YOU DON’T LIKE IT, IF YOU DON’T BELIEVE IT - GET THE FUCK OUT!
The fact you choose to stay JUST to constantly spout the ignorant bullshit that comes from your keyboard means you are more than likely fucked up more than anyone here. You only WISH someone would even care if you decided to end it, and the fact no one would makes you even bat-shit crazier about coming to tell us all how fake this is.
Take your lazy, fat-assed ignorant ass to some other blog. Oh, that’s right. You won’t. Because you have nothing better to do. My bad.
Wow, I have friends visiting from 3 different places in,
the world. ALL via the internet. They are a pleasure,
then to come here and read what Richard has written ‘, and the
comments - some are so heartless, and I’m with whoever
said, ‘ until we know and have met Harlan, call me
whatever you want, I choose to believe in him - I hope
you will be back Harlan, Love to the ‘bleeding’ hearts.
and I won’t pass judgement on others who for whatever reason, still want to put the nail in t the coffin.
I sure don’t. Just stop - it doesn’t help.
Get better Harlan.
I hope you come back.
Jaydon xx
Lilly - I care so don’t end it! Just keep doin’ your thing.
xoxox
Dave
I just came out of lurkdom to say
LILY IS THE GREATEST! She is one of the reasons I keep coming here to read. She tells the truth based on what Harlan has written as fact here. I swear the ones who keep disagreeing are either blind or just plain stupid.
Lily sorry you’re fighting breast cancer. Based on what you write you seem to be a fighter and I hope your outcome is great.You seem to have a a great sense of humor and like somebody who doesn’t take any crap and I really like that. Good luck and keep on writing here.I come here every day to see what you and a few others have said and after agreeing I usually laugh out loud.
whydontyouleave - YOU need to leave and take that stick out of your fat ass then shut the fuck up. You wouldn’t even think about a 500 pound ass unless you had one yourself. Oh that’s right you won’t because you have nothing better to do.You’ll just keep changing your name here. My bad.
GO LILY GO!
But seriously, AIDS (from “Richard’s” Captain Happy).
It’s quite obvious that either “Richard” is fake or someone else has posted in his “name”.
Why bother with what? I would assume (assume makes an ass out of you and me) he means his life. I never really understood suicidal people. Now, homicidal people, I can relate to. I guess suicidal people hate themselves, and homicidal people hate others.
Lilly’s breast cancer may be related to her ignorance and/or hate. Just saying.
I’m not Richard..but this proves that is really easy to be someone else.
Harlan. I hope you’re gettin better and recovering from your lost.
Complot
Hominy, that is a completely ignorant statement. Please disappear.
miss you
OK, SO WHO KNOWS WHAT HARLAN’S TRUTH IS. i AM SORRY HE HASN’T BEEN WRITING AND I HOPE HE’S OK. HAVE A DAUGHTER WITH A MENTAL DISORDER, I CAN TELL YOU LIVING IT, BEING WITH IT, AND ALL THAT AND ALL WHOM IT AFFECTS IS JUST AS ROUGH AND HARD AS CANCER. BECAUSE IN THE END, YOU CAN NEVER KNOW IF THE MENTAL DISORDER WILL RESULT IN SUICIDE, DRUG OD, ETC. So for all you fucks out there, yes, I am talking to YOU JOE, who criticize or what ever, go write your own blog, or stop commenting here. Because until you walk in someone’s shoes, or walk in their family’s shoes, you can can’t possibly incredibly know what pain and heart ache and horrible shit they are living through. Hence, laras life, cause it’s really lousy because I have a child who has gone from doctor to doctor without finding any relief and I live each day wondering if she will ever get to the point where she ends it all like her grandfather did.
OMG F*cking post something!!
All, I spoke with ‘Harlan’ on Saturday. We had lunch at the cafe where he is staying. He appears to be doing ok. The Dr. said that he was not taking the correct amount of meds. This is has been adjusted. ‘Harlan’ has decided to stop writing here at soveryalone.com. He wanted me to leave you all with the following.
“The fact to which we have got to cling, as to a lifebelt, is that it is possible to be a normal decent person and yet be fully alive.”
No, Shame On You, what is ignorant is Lilly coming here over and over with her comments of how fake Harlan is, even going so far to tell everyone his suicide attempt was fake and then laugh about it. You even said yourself “but I don’t think it is necessary for you to call him names and degrade him on a daily basis…You are here to be mean from behind the safety of your computer. In real life, you probably swallow all of your anger towards people…” In case you haven’t heard, the type of person you are can cause many things. If you are filled with animosity, guilt, hate, anger, jealousy, etc. your immune system can be compromised. Ask any Asian healer ;)
Thank you for the update Richard. He is doing better, that is a great relief. Please let him know that several of us are thinking about him and wishing him the best, even us lurkers.
“Richard” if that’s what Harlan really said, his medication needs to be adjusted again, because that doesn’t make any sense. However, it does have the psuedo-spriritual/intellectual ring of someone smoking A LOT of pot…which makes me wonder what type of ‘clinic’ Harlan’s in.
Yeah, as last words go, those really weren’t so great. They sound more like something Bertha would say, after smoking a lot of pot. Richard, could you please ask him to come up with something a little more inciteful?
quick observation/question……
Unmedicated Harlan was a pretty fun but lonely guy. He was lonely and insecure but he enjoyed his geeky life and seemed to enjoy his video games, sci fi, movies and stuff. Sure he felt isolated but he was also FUNNY. His blog was often hilarious and insightful without even trying.
Medicated he seems to have become angry, sometimes boorish and now suicidal.
Stating the obvious I’ve gotta say: ‘the drugs don’t work’. Do they?
And in my opinion this is not an isolated case.
‘Harlan’, best of luck for the future if you are really out there.
‘Richard’, pass on my good wishes and thank Harlan for some class entertainment.
Asshat, Leland, Lilly et al. thanks also. this was a great blog
Point made sorry folks.
I am not really “Richard” I am Dade. I made all that shit up hoping to brign Harlan out of hiding. But see how easy it is?
I do hope that Harlan comes back soon.. so as far as I know Harlan never tried taking is own life… it was not meant to be a joke.. it was meant to make him blog again.. sorry =(
“The fact to which we have got to cling, as to a lifebelt, is that it is possible to be a normal decent person and yet be fully alive.”
Allen Ginsberg? Dade - Dade Murphy… wow I have not seen the movie hackers in years
HARLAN.. PLEASE POST SOMTHING ANYTHING…….
EVEN A GOOD BYE!!!
Dade, you mean that Captain Happy didn’t really poke Harlan’s bunghole? That’s depressing news . . . .
Yeah. I didn’t think anyone would beleive me.. Then people starting talking about.. I felt bad.. I am not a good liar..
Harlan come back!!
Ladies and Gentlemen - Place your bets!
Move along, folks. Nothing to see here. Get a life. Move along.
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO I can’t live with out Harlan’s news and all witty commenters. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO NOOOOOOOOOO COME BACKKKKK…..I have no life.
I miss you guys.
Can’t we all just get along?
Most. Comments. Evar!
I have lived a long, long time, and I have very little tolerence for ‘bleeding hearts’ as a rule. If the situation is not a result of an individual’s actions, of course we should give all the compassion and support we can muster. However, when a person is in a situation of their own making, it is not productive. Is making bad and selfish choices a mental illness? It sure wasn’t in my day. When you did something wrong, you paid for it. Your actions were not tolerated. No one said ‘poor baby’, you were told to clean it up and never do it again. So you did. No excuses, no medications. It was a learning exercise.
There are too many excuses made today for wrong decisions. Nothing is our fault Nothing is our childrens fault. We didn’t know. The teacher is picking on them. We weren’t told. The list is endless.
We want to be happy. And most of all we want our children to be happy. Does making excuses for inappropriate behavior make us happy? I don’t think so. I think doing the right thing, making the right choices and feeling good about it is what makes us happy. And when we make the wrong choices, we should be held to task. We will be very unhappy about it at the time, but the next time, and the time after, hopefully we will have learned to make the right choices.
I don’t think ‘Harlan’ ever learned to make the right choices. Is he too old to learn? I don’t know. Do medications help you learn to make the right ones? I don’t know. But I do know this, tolerating, and making excuses for bad behavior is not working in our society today. Just look around you.
…but was THAT the real Harlan… or is THIS the real Harlan?
Harlan will post tonight or tomrrow. I promise.
Old woman-
You are wasting your time. You’ll be told you are a mean person for expecting Harlan to actually change in order to be happy. After all, he CAN’T change, he just CAN’T.
Anyway, I do hope to see some sort of update. He’s a train wreck for sure, but he’s entertaining at least. As are all the comments, but one can only take this so far after all.
Joe
Rock Triva anyone?
Harlan I am about to drive out to Indiana and smack you. POST. Even if it’s I am done, so long, it’s been fun, take care, its been real etc etc..
_a
Indiana? Noooooooooo………say it ani’t so. A fellow Hoosier?
Hey Dade, what’s your favorite:
Color?
Song?
Tree?
Movie?
Go.
Has anyone noticed - has the ad been changing since Harlan bid us adieu?
Yes, the ad has changed - can’t remember what it was, but this one is different.
and I’m here to admit to being a lying, jack-ass. Sorry guys, it isn’t my fault. My mother is my father who is my brothers sisters dog.
I am increasing my meds.
PSYCHE!!
This blog is like a Hall of Mirrors…
More like MC Escher, Briget……….
Wait, so if Harlan isn’t dead or in a psych ward, it probably means he got caught again trying to steal dildos in a way that would foil a strip-search.
Ok, not to comment on the sheer idiocy of the majority of these comments, I have chosen not to comment at all until now.
However, just as a bit of blogging FYI, The owner of the blog neither changes nor has any control over the sidebar ads. They change automatically in accordance with the content of the page. Comments included. So yes, with every comment there is the chance of the sidebar ad changing.
It means nothing.
It’s me “Harlan” and Leland guessed it. I’m in jail, serving time for stealing dildo’s and blow up dolls at the local sex shop. I couldn’t resist the dolls because they look just like my sister. “Richard” if you read this please tell “Jane” I’m sorry and not to worry becasue she looks a lot like my sister, too. I’m adding Viagra to my meds so that Mr. Floppy will become Mr. Happy when I see her. I hope she doesn’t forget that WE HAVE A RELATIONSHIP!!
No content here; just trying to influence the sidebar ads.
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If Harlan isn’t sufficient annoyed by this abuse of his blog to come out of hiding, he really must be dead. RIP, clepto-boy.
Amen. It’s been fun all. It’s time to part ways and delete harlan from my favorites. I have to say - I will miss you all. I have been here since pretty much day 1. I have wa
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Take Care all
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yea… its been a weird trip, too bad it had it had to end… (sob, sob) no mo, see ya all in the funny papers.
If anyone knows of an interesting, fun blog of a looser to read, like this one that we can all hop to over to please, please tell us.
We need to fill the void that Harlan left. I know, there is NO ONE like Harlan but thought I would ask…
stop fighting, stop judging, just stop.
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whatever, we just don’t want the blog to go away - some of us will miss the madness (in case you couldn’t tell)
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Um… so did he send anybody a suicide note? Joking sortof…
As a note to those “testing” the sidebar ad theory… no such luck. A few comments like that are not enough to prevent the inevitable. The sidebar ad right now is for anti-depressants and suicide hotlines. A couple of random comments that may actually appear to google to be spam are not enough to change the actual content of this page that they are paying to advertise on…
I am going to write the ending of soveryalone.com
Our dear friend Harlan gets married to Jane - and B gets jealous and almost kills Jane but that dog he was stalking saves them all.
Richard and capt happy got married in cali a few weeks after Jane and Harlans.
Harlan finds out that Jane ….. ok someone else take over
… is having a torrid love affair with the christian chick at harlan’s job….
…..AND that Jane is really his mother, who is very much alive. Harlan realizes his sister is the sane one and ups his meds, again. He then goes to Walmart, steals some condoms (he had to really search to find petite’s) and heads over to Bertha’s determined that this time his weener will stand up to the task. When he reaches her door he hears loud music and is pretty sure that she is having a party. He knocks, the door opens and he sees his brother, sister-in-law, Jane, Bertha, Christian Girl, Richard, Mr. Happy, Fed-Ex girl AND Porche Guy. Suddenly……
…. suddenly, the wolverines that were trapped in the drier machine escape and…
…Christian Girl starts praying, brother and sister-in-law run for the hills, Jane hides behind a plant, Richard and Mr. Happy jump in the dryer, “Harlan” starts…..
..the dryer with the two of them inside. Now Harlans starts lookng for a ..
bicycle to have sex with. After a wild afternoon of handle bars and brake cables, Harlan falls asleep exhausted. He awakens in his apartment and is grateful it was all a dream. He rolls over and kisses Bertha sweetly on the cheek. The stubble on her cheek tickle his lips and he smiles.
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OMG LOL, IT WORKED… LOOK AT THE SIDE BAR ADS…
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“hehe” Harlan thinks to himself. “I am the luckiest man alive” A rumble which sounds a bit think thunder explodes from the under the sheets just then Harlan…
Clean up in Isle 3.
Dwmn!!! These comments are as good as the blog!!! Lets see how long we can keep this going/.
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….just then Harlan remembers that he is supposed to update his blog and realizes that his readers have taken over. Then Harlan….
…announces that in order to complete his revenge, he has spread a lethal virus through his blog that will destroy our software and will cause to us Diarrhea for the next 12 months. Then…
.. Harlan realizes that he messed up again and gave himself Diarrhea, hense the rumble in the sheets. Harlan crawls out of bed, just then the phone rings..
and it’s his probation officer reminding him that he must to community service. ‘harlan’ chooses to volunteer at the local hair removal salon. He consideres himself a master as he’s been shaving Bertha for months now. Although, when he chats with her about his decision she……
flies into a violent rage, and pinched him roughly on the tender underside of his upper arm…
and tells him that he’s “dropped his smile” to try to get him to fight back. That’s when….
the weasels in the dryer got loose and….
there was a LOUD knock on the door. “H” rushes to see who it is and finds Porche Guy standing there. PG throws his arms around ‘Harlan’ and professes his love for him, explaining the reason for the ‘dropped smile’ comment was to get his attention. Bertha comes flying into the room, sees the men embracing and…….
i know this is tmi but i’ve got the big “D” - honest… i really do…. (can you hear the twilight theme music)
….unable to wrap her head around the sight, says “that’s it, Harlan, I’m calling your mother.”
…to which Harlan responds in a deep, James Earl Jones like voice, “you ARE my mother.”
In the shocked silence, no one noticed Richard stepping through the doorway, or his look of horror at seeing his new boyfriend wrapped in Harlans arms…
Harlan’s mother in Alienesque fashion emerges out of Bertha’s hairy chest. Stunned Harlan passes out. When he awakes he is relieved it was all a dream. He rolls over, kisses his parole office sweetly on the cheek and falls back asleep.
Harlan’s mother in Alienesque fashion emerges out of Bertha’s hairy chest. Stunned Harlan passes out. When he awakes he is relieved it was all a dream. He rolls over, kisses his parole office sweetly on the cheek and falls back asleep.
LOL nsva!
The end.
Moshiz, Ernest, Lilly, Herb, all y’all, Amy: been a treat.
Asshat: will miss you most.
Harlan: thinking of you still, not so very alone after all.
It was fun and now it’s over. The curtain has fallen. I’ll miss all of you.
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Thanks for making it an even two hundred posts, holymonkeytits. It was really starting to annoy me seeing 199 comments to Harlan’s swan song.
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Ok, it’s not a round number, but 205 will do, and I don’t want to piss Wordpress off any more.
No more posts now. Please.
Been away once again for just a few daze.
Harlan, I choose to believe that you, indeed, are very
real - to me you always will be - If and when you are ready - I am one to hope that you will say Hi again.
I also have a sense of haha, however, I can’t help but
feel that this is very real, and although I agree with
so many of the comments - I also believe that Harlan,
indeed, is real, has some serious psychological problems,
I was hoping the Celexa would work - however, you never
answered how much you were taking Harlan. I do believe
that Harlan is one of those who may fall through the cracks, and if there are people out there in the medical
world, doing their jobs, (or even with his court catastrophe) they will pick up on this.
I can hope, just as I can hope that all of you have a heart - and for all of the naysayers, just for one moment, consider how many people have the exact same
problems (or close to) Harlan’s. They need help and
support, not people berating them. They already berate
themselves enough.
To some of you, it’s been a joy to see that in this
de-sensitized world, there are stil people who care.
To Harlan, wherever you are - you are an exceptional
writer, amongst other things - use that talent!
Miss you.
Jaydon and Katey 2
I can has more Harlan?
I bet in a week, there will be no more comments, except for:
A) Completely new people
B) People who used to read this blog (ex. 3 months ago)
C) People who want to smite my prediction.
Harlan there is your answer. Why bother? Read Jaydon’s post.
‘Harlan’ I am very old. I would hate going to my grave not knowing if you are real or an experiment in writing. Please send me an email before it’s too late. Thanks.
I wonder if Porsche guy has Harlan captive in his basement, all gimp style, and is helping him to loosen up a bit?
For the Author, this blog has been an exercise in how gullible people can be. If ‘Harlan’ has even an ounce of decorum, he’ll be back to tell the truth. However, it would be much more ‘H’-like to cowardly fade away into cyberland allowing his supporters to continue to repeat themselves and incorrectly assume that because the ney-sayers don’t believe ‘H’, we are insensitive and non-supportive to people suffering from mental illness.
So. Not. True.
I know this guy, this blog is a total lie.
All bullshit!!!
And we are supposed to believe that you know him…..why?
Lilly - IF anyone repeats themselves, it is you.
Supporter/non-supporter is not the issue for me.
HUMANITY is.
and I do hope you beat your dreaded ‘c’.
Jaydon