New Obsession
Posted by harlan on 25 Apr 2008 at 04:06 am | Tagged as: talking to the void
I haven’t slept more than a couple hours the past couple days.
On Wednesday night, I was wondering what made me ask Bertha marry me. I just kind of blurted the question, without really considering what it implies, other than that if she was married to me, she wouldn’t be screwing Thurston on non-Wednesday nights (Maybe Thurston has Thursdays, and some other guy [who I’ll call Fred] gets Fridays, and so forth).
By Thursday, though, I was unable to sleep for an entirely different reason: I was freaked out about what if she says "Yes?"
More than anything else in the world, I want to be married and have kids, but I’m not sure Bertha’s the one. I at least need more time.
It’s too bad I had to go and open my big mouth, because otherwise things are going so great right now. I love my new job. Really, I should say that I love one part about my new job: scanning the internet usage logs, seeing what people are browsing.
First of all, I was glad to see that nobody at work has visited soveryalone.com. So I don’t have to worry about whether I’m being read by a coworker. Second, I am amazed at how much time everyone in the office is spending browsing the web. I doubt that there is a single person here who spends less than 4.5 hours a day browsing.
Here are some examples.
Stan is a gadget freak. He bounces from Gizmodo to Engadget to TechCrunch to NewEgg to buy.com. Almost continuously. Based on the number of times per week he goes from the product page to a secure connection, I’m guessing his house is full of shiny things.
Larry loves politics and news, and is apparently a big Clinton supporter, though it looks like he hasn’t been able to give up the dailykos.com habit. I feel sorry for Larry.
Donna shops and follows entertainment. She hits TMZ.com an unhealthy number of times per day, and Googles celebrity names nearly constantly. The combination of words she’s searched in conjunction with the term "stanley tucci" is probably the clearest cry for help I have ever seen.
Devin, my boss, may actually be the second worst offender of all. To his credit, a lot of the time he’s on the web he’s looking at competitor sites and doing research on new marketing scams schemes. But he spends five times as much time reading ESPN.com. I swear, he must reload the Page2 section 200 times per day, just praying that Bill Simmons has posted something in the past three minutes.
And then there’s Mary, the evangelical who tried to convert me when I introduced myself.
Holy shit.
She starts at some evangelical site, evidently gets herself worked up about the sins of lust and fornication, and then she’s on her way over to persiankitty.com. She bounces around there (not literally as far as I know) for a while and then, maybe feeling guilty, heads on over to an online bible.
And get this: Mary works in a cubicle. Just like pretty much everyone here. But of course she has the back of the monitor facing the cubicle entrance, so you can’t see what she’s looking at.
Or at least, she thinks we can’t see what she’s looking at.
I haven’t decided what I’m going to do with this information, but I like having it.
You have found your perfect niche with this job, haven’t you? I always wondered what sort of people become employer internet-monitor snitches and you are just what I imagined.
Maybe for her birthday, you could buy Mary a praying-hands mirror and insist that she hang it up in her cubicle.
Either that, or a fireman.
hey, i love bill simmons. he’s the best thing on the web. better even than harlan.
What makes you think marriage would make Bertha give up her lovers? What are you going to do if she says yes to your proposal and then has a long list of terms and conditions? For starters, you’d have to go to therapy, buy in to her new age spirituality, read all her book club books, eat sushi, give up your favourite movies and let her have sex with other people. Wouldn’t you like to have an exclusive relationship with a girlfriend before you get married and have babies?
As for the internet information, you should have a policy of acceptable usage in place and distribute it to everyone before you do anything with the information. Except perhaps for extorting money from Mary.
If married people actually gave up their lovers, my love life definitely would be more boring.
Why am I not shocked to hear that? H, are you sure you want to be married? You might turn into an asshat.
I didn’t say I’m married, Moshizzle.
Some additional gift ideas for Mary,
http://book22.com/merchant2/
This is confusing. If she expected you to be fine with this “one of my lovers” thing, then why did she freak out when she thought you were cheating on her? And it was only the fifth date, not even you could call it a relationship by then.
All very good points, Talita.
Asshat, lovin on the neglected housewives. Hell yeah.
Harlan, snooping’s interesting, but not interesting enough. I think Lilly’s right. I think the kiss of death is nigh. You’d better incorporate your brother’s wife (whom you surely still covet), your sister, Jane, Richard, FedEx lady (btw, I just discovered I have a hot FedEx lady, so it is indeed possible) etc., do drugs,or have sex with someone else. And not in a dream sequence.
I just had to say that I got smacked down by the Harlan in our company. Too much working on my blog lol! Lately I try very hard not to do anything, but its really slow right now… ugh. Should I read a book instead?
Harlan already does drugs, ConGypsCo. Leland was convincing on that point. So the only way to save this blog is for Harlan to have waking sex with all those people you mentioned.
Asshat, why are you fooling around with married women? Are you afraid of commitment?
Just call me a booty call boy.
Knowledge is power. And with my own surfing habits (especially links from your comment section, lately), it makes me wonder who may be holding power over me.
Thurston may have Thursday and Fred may have Friday, but Harlan, you have hump day. That seems appropriate, doesn’t it?
Yeah, and Satan has Saturdays.
Does God have Sundays to make up for it all, or is she cheating on him too?
Are we frozen in time? Did H die? What’s the dizzy?
They probably got married and are now on their honeymoon at some new age spiritual retreat where she’s brainwashing H.
Oh My GOD. You are just too friggin’ cool for this site. You are my hero. I know you are really a hot guy that I want to MARRY. Will you? Please. Don’t let me play all alone.
maybe you can use this info to start a conversation and maybe get a new friend?
Hey do any of those folks check out any interesting blogs? I’ve got at least 2 hours in my day where I’m supposed to be working, but could be doing more internet surfing.
I wonder how long it’s going to be before companies start outlawing or blocking the use of aircards? That’ll be a dark day.
Harlan, this is unacceptable. Where are you?
Maybe he’s on his honeymoon.
I miss Harlan
ya.. where are you? did you get arrested again for stealing?
Time to invoke the full refund policy, Amy.
i think he is dead.. RIP harlan
i guess the ticket expired
game over folks..
Maybe he’s just playing hard to get….or maybe Bertha pleasured him with the fireman and he is too damn tired to tell us all about it.
Maybe we’ll never know…
Dilbert agrees with your coworkers.
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