Could I Please Get Some Sleep Already?
Posted by harlan on 31 Mar 2008 at 08:12 am | Tagged as: talking to the void
After my long night in the slammer (that phrase, as a way of starting a story, has a certain something, which the French call “I don’t know what,” that’s very appealing, doesn’t it?), which I know I painted in the worst possible terms, I soon came to realize that there are worse things: having to face the wrath of a very angry woman. Let’s just say that B. did not take kindly to having been stood up. I suppose I can’t blame her, in retrospect. But at the moment she barged into my apartment (note to self: you’ve got to start locking your front door!), as I was trying to get a little sleep, I wasn’t really in the mood. How would you react to someone shaking you awake and screaming at you, after not having gotten hardly any sleep? I should have just taken my lumps, I guess, but instead I kind of blew up at her.
I’m not even sure what she was saying when I first came to. The part that got through the fog was something about what was her name. Eventually I realized that B. thought I’d stood her up because I was with another woman. If I’d been in a better mood, this would have made me laugh. The other woman’s name? Are we talking about the same guy here? I mean, it’s me, Harlan, who has about as much chance of two-timing a woman as a one legged man has of winning a butt-kicking contest. I think my exact words though were, “What the hell are you talking about?”
“What the hell am I talking about? I’m talking about the fact that you blew me off! That you didn’t even call! That now you’re asleep in the middle of the day, having spent all day not calling me to tell me what happened? I was worried sick! Until I realized you were probably cheating on me!”
What I said next kind of surprised even me: “Dammit, will you lay off already! I wasn’t with another woman. I just spent the entire fucking night in jail, okay? Are you satisfied?” So much for wondering how I was going to tell her.
B. Just stood there, with her mouth hanging open, kind of dumbstruck. It was a sight to behold. I know I haven’t said all that much about B., out of respect for her privacy, but if I had to choose one word to describe her, it would not be “speechless.” Maybe speechful, in fact, would be a decent choice. Seeing this made me bold. Normally I probably would have fallen apart, afraid that I’d just offended a woman, but seeing her like that gave me the courage to throw in, “And I’d like to get a little sleep if you don’t mind!”
I think she was so shocked by my assertiveness,that she just didn’t know what else to do but obey. You could see on her face that she wanted to ask more questions. Her forehead was bulging with veins, like all her questions were going to just burst right out of her head. Instead, without saying another word, she turned around and left, slamming my front door behind her. So I turned over and went back to sleep.
Good riddance, hopefully but unlikely.
Ohhhhh. I totes called it! I knew B would both a) pop a vein and b) barge into your place. FOR FACK SAKES MAN - LOCK YOUR DOOR!!
You’ve got the upper hand now. I say, while you’re on a hot streak, call her and tell her that her “barging in” behavior and off-the-handle accusations are unacceptable.
My prediction: B will always think you were with another woman. Show her the arrest and court papers; she’ll still think you were with another woman. Done deal. She’s psycho, you’re screwed.
jail rules.
You know, whenever I see “B.” in one of your posts, only two women come to mind: Aunt Bea from the Andy Griffith show, and Bea Aurthur from the Golden Girls.
I also can’t help but think about Lola.
La La La La Lola….
Good work Harlan.
Now please explain to us why that took 2-3 days to type up, when more has certainly happened between now and then.
I think that went pretty well, on a harlan-way-of-life basis. what surprised me was that I have been having trouble sleepin too. 4 xanax can make miracles, and this post is taking me forever cuz i cant see rigth yet…just proved that im harlan too,
What if, because of his jail stint, Harlan becomes more assertive (and aggressive) with B.? Although as Kristian pointed out something is bound to have happened with B. since this all transpired. Is Ju-Ju on the right track? Did you tell her barging in was unacceptable? Did you finally lock your door? And speaking of that, you must live in an extremely safe neighborhood to decide against locking your front door. Is B. comfortable dating a man who spent a night in jail? I’m curious (obviously) to see your next post.
Also, the Google ads on the sidebar are about toddler sleep. I thought it was amusing.
It’s about time you asserted some boundaries with Bertha. Do you think that you subconsciously allowed yourself to get caught at Wal Mart to avoid having sex with her?
YOU FINALLY GOT SOME BALLS!
nice work Harlan!
now go steal some pants.
Moshizzle, I’m hoping he got caught shoplifting to save us from having to read the details about sex with Bertha.
Go Harlan Go!
Amy, I’m glad you’re feeling better after all that growling you were doing earlier. Now go photograph some parsnips.
“I know I haven’t said all that much about B., out of respect for her privacy”. Yup, I agree. You haven’t said much about Bertha other than:
1. She is fat and has an ass the size of China.
2) Has too much hair everywhere, especially on her arms.
3) Has horrible taste in clothing and wears it all many sizes too small.
4) You think she’s ugly…but, are willing to look beyond it because you are so lonely.
5) She walks like she’s mentally challenged.
6) She barges into other peoples homes without knocking. All. The. Time.
7) Decides after having dinner with friends that you and her are IN A RELATIONSHIP.
8) After such dinner, blows up your phone with psychotic messages about YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
9) Lends a shoplifting/gambling/loser that is totally using her $500 after he lies about what the money is for and why he needs it.
10) Tells you when and where you’re going to have sex.
11) Has veins bulging out of her forehead.
You’re right, you’ve really been very respectful of Big Bertha’s privacy.
I thank the lord that I don’t believe in that I’m not Bertha or Harlan. Geez.
My secluded life feels duller by the minute in comparison with yours, Harlan. You have my admiration and my sympathy.
I love you asshat
worst writing ever! no one is shocked by your…je ne sais quois?…your assertiveness? yikes. none of this is remotely believable dear. this unlocked door device that you’ve exhausted is beyond boring. LAZY buddy, LAZY.
For those of you who don’t blog, or write, or anything, shut the fuck up. Whether this is true, believable, fake or whatever, keep on blogging Harlan. If it is true, well, I hope life turns up. If somewhat “colorful”, keep on writing. I haven’t stopped reading.
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