This Has Been a Great Week
Posted by harlan on 14 Mar 2008 at 08:20 am | Tagged as: marking time
Bad things tend to come in twos and threes, and I’m beginning to suspect that good things come in fives.
First of all, I recovered from the disastrous first date B. and I had without the damage I expected to incur. And in fact, it led to a second date. Tonight, in fact. I have to say, though, that the possibility of an actual relationship made it impossible to sleep last night. What will I talk about? I really don’t know. I really have no idea whether B. likes sci-fi, or video games. I wonder if I might be able to talk to her about racquetball. That seems like a more typical “guy thing” a non-geek might talk about.
I feel fuzzy-headed, but I’ll take a nap later in the day. I don’t have anything I have to do today, except go and buy some new deodorant and aftershave. I’ve let myself go a bit lately.
Second, I got The Orange Box in the mail from Amazon.com yesterday. I am now spending every available moment playing Portal. This might be the best video game ever created. I already got to the end of the game, where I got to hear the end credits song — which I immediately recognized as something Jonathan Coulton could have written. A few moments with Google showed me that in fact he did write the song.
Anyways, I’m playing through the game a second time right now, this time trying to destroy all the security cameras as I go through. If you love action / puzzle games and have a sense of humor, I can’t recommend this game strongly enough.
Third, I have gotten an interview with a bank’s IT department. Monday. The upper end of the salary range is lower than what I used to make, but to tell the truth I’m willing to take a lower-paying job just to get past the anxiety of unemployment. I can keep looking for a better job once I’m working again.
Fourth, I got the Bloggie award. That’s validating. I wonder if I could start selling advertising on this site now. I’m not sure what kind of ads I’d sell, though. Ads for dating services, maybe? Ha.
And finally, I had an excellent conversation with my sister yesterday. She called, and I answered her questions directly and without rancor. Although when I say “directly,” you shouldn’t assume that also means “truthfully.” Which is to say, I told her my job is going fine, and that yes, I am now seeing a therapist and am making good progress. I was tempted to tell her about B., but I knew that would just bring questions and probably disapproval.
The total conversation duration was nine minutes, a new recored for brevity. I believe I will tell her her exactly what she hears from now on.
good luck on your date! try pizza or cheesburgers this time.
Good luck! Just be yourself. Pretending to be someone you’re not is a colossal waste of time.
By the pricking of my thumbs, something wicked this way comes.
Lola, lo lo lo la Lola….
I think Harlan is taking narcotics. I think he found an old perkocet perscription…
H, Bertha said ‘playing small doesn’t serve anyone’. So tell us dude, does this give you incentive to play huge with your tiny package (you did tell us it was almost an ‘inny’, right?).
Don’t worry H, Bertha is all about the meat and not the motion!
Can anyone please tell me what this is supposed to mean,
“I believe I will tell her her exactly what she hears from now on”
Leland may be on to something.
Chuck–I’m thinkin’ it’s supposed to be, “I believe I will tell her exactly what she WANTS to hear from now on”.
Harlan–What are you doin’ buyin’ deordorant? Not that I’m supporting the thievery aspect of your/our personality, but you’d think it’d be easier to lift some deodorant than pants.
Harlan - thought you had no money and no credit. How are you going to buy deodorant? Steal it? Who is paying on this date? B? That wouldn’t be too cool. Well I suppose you could always dine and dash…..
If it’s not narcotics, it’s brainwashing, body-snatching, alien-abduction or mind control. “Paying” for deodorant and aftershave is not a good sign, either. Nothing good will come of any of this.
Have fun. Yes, please be youself.
yourself..even
Well, if not yourself, at least be “ourself”, eh?
P.S. I knew a guy named Youself Ebrahim in college and, as Adam at first stated, why don’t we be him, too?
Harlan, I really, really hope you have a mahvelous time. I mean I really do. Things are looking up for you, I can just feel it. You’ve got a job interview, you’ve got a 2nd date, I mean, this is your chance for a new start, just like you said.
Like Sansnom said, just be “ourself.” Just do that, and you’ll be fine.
i predict tears and Banquo’s ghost stalking the halls of your condo by the end of the month. Cynical i know, but really?????
okay, so i’m going to ask the obvious since (surprisingly) no one else has: are we going to get any details about the date with B???! i, for one, would love to hear how it went and what made it enjoyable, awkward, surprising, and enough to make you both move on to another.
okay, i’m a dork. when i read this post i thought you were saying you already went on the second date with B. and are going to go on another “real” date, which you are counting as the second.
anyway.
yeah. looking forward to hearing the details in the aftermath!
Of course details will be supplied! I hope you enjoy yourself on the date, Harlan.
Where is Asshat?
Did you tell your sis that the therapist makes condo calls.
Sadly, Asshat did become stuck to the toilet seat. Fortunately, I barged through his unlocked door and found him soon enough to rescue him with a freshly peeled grape. He says it’s a bit sour though.
I think other than waiting for the next chapter of Lost, I’m here waiting for the next chapter on your story.
p.s why not trying some adds, extra money is always welcome.
Okay, it’s 1:00PM the day after. Either Bertha-the-spawn-of-an-eel has swalled H and he is now hoping for regurgitation OR, Becky and Jane showed up and H is having a 4-some and refuses to come up for air.
Hmmm…
I was going to say LOTR marathon with Bertha.
As a fellow IT guy i must say Portal and basically the whole orange box is freaking amazing. Good luck with the bank interview.
Harlan - I can’t believe you actually went out on another date with Bertha! I would have figured that the first date was definately a no brainer for a second date, but we are talking about you and you have such a weird, yet entertaining life!
Congrats on the bloggie!!!