My Weekend So Far
Posted by harlan on 27 Jan 2008 at 09:23 pm | Tagged as: talking to the void
Sometimes I think that Walmarts were specially designed to be stolen from. It’s like the company owners were thinking, “You know, we’re evil heartless robber barons; let’s at least make it simple for people who can’t afford something we have to acquire it on a non-cash basis.”
Anyway, Friday on the way home from work I went to the Walmart to buy some groceries, which I did purchase. I also stole a Hannah Montana “Life’s What You Make It” DVD, because I was curious what the Hannah Montana craze is about.
Friday night, I watched the DVD, but am now more deeply mystified by the Hannah Montana craze than I was before.
I put the DVD back in the case, then put that on my back porch, as an experiment. In the morning, it was gone. I don’t consider that theft; I consider it a gift anonymously given and anonymously received. Although I do think that maybe I should have put a note in the case apologizing for the poor quality of the entertainment therein contained.
I may try putting other things out there. Like, would my new friend (and why shouldn’t I think of the person who took the DVD as a friend?) like season 1 of Battlestar Galactica? That might be a considerate thing to do, considering how lame my first gift was.
Talking to Richard
I spent some time Saturday reading the comments people have posted to my blog. It made me think that I should try to help Richard with whatever is wrong. But the thing is, about two days out of every three I feel like breathing is more trouble than its worth, but if anyone asked me what was wrong, I’d say, “Nothing; I’m just focusing on my job.” I’ve said this before a few times, and nobody’s ever followed up.
But Richard seems to like talking to people more than I do, so I think I’ll at least say, “Hey, you doing better today?” when I see him tomorrow morning. And if he wants to say, “Yeah, I’m fine,” then we’re done with it. If he wants to tell me more, I’ll try to listen. But I have no advice to give to anyone, so I hope he doesn’t expect a solution from me.
Going to South By SouthWest to Get My Bloggie Award
I got email today (the first email I’ve ever gotten at my blog address) from the guy who manages the Bloggie nominations, asking if I’m coming to the awards ceremony. This is funny for several reasons.
1. Out of the five finalists, the only possible blog that will get fewer votes than mine is Trevor’s blog, because I simply cannot imagine someone looking at that thing and not immediately getting a strong taste of saccharine in your mouth. This is in fact my one goal: to get more votes than Trevor. Do they tell you how many votes you got and what place you took? I hope so.
2. I feel alone when I’m at home, but I feel about thirty times more alone in a conference center (I usually go to one or two trade shows each year). And while it’s never happened to me before, I suspect I would feel ten million times more alone if I were at an awards ceremony where I were a finalist with no chance of winning the prize. I feel sick thinking about it right now.
I guess that’s only two reasons, not several, but it’s enough.
Asking Richard how he’s doing sounds like a good thing to do.
Also- sounds like it’s nice to be recognized in the Bloggies even if you think you’re the dark horse here.
In any case- Good Luck!
I’ve enjoyed reading it.
I think your blog is what you can say..”just the way you are” kind of blog. you just said what you think and what you feel. anyway..just want to say congratulation. it is not easy to maintain a blog (i have try several times and I never suceeded) dont be too hard on yourselves.
I’ve always favoured the dark horse. I hope you win.
Damn, I would have voted for you in the Best designed blog category too, if I could - the competition there is so cluttered, ad-littered and eyeball unfriendly.
Anyway, I’m adding you to my list of Unusual Suspects, which is a list far superior to the Bloggies, and if anything enhanced by its relative obscurity (which is why I won’t link to it here).
Good luck.
So, what are these trade shows you go to?
Hey, Harlan, if you do go to the Bloggies, why not look our for Pioneer Woman. If she can’t keep you company, she’ll sure give you a few giggles!
Helen
Hey Harlan, I thought Walmart had some sort of theft detection stickers on their products that triggered an alarm at the door if you left without it being scanned. I had something go off on me that was paid for and the door person checked my receipt. Maybe you should devote a column to your pilfering secrets.
Hannah Montana, eh? There are about a million things I can think of that I’d want to “see what the craze is about”, but Hannah is not on the list. To each his own, I guess. :P
And good on ya for deciding to talk to Richard. Don’t worry about the advice end of things; I’ve found that when (if) people respond to questions like that, they generally just need to talk it out of their system. Just having someone to listen to him will help.
And you should definitely go to the Bloggies. What a great experience that would be–and you’d come back with some AMAZING stories to tell us!
Why did you steal when it is on cable ?
Do you think we’re stupid? We know who you are. We’ll be waiting for you at the bloggies.
I heard a song last week and thought, cool song, then I checked the artist and it was Hannah Montana/Miley Cirus….ack! WTF?
Good luck with the Bloggie Awards, I’m gonna vote for you, your blog is great.
Harlan do you have any pets?
If you go to the Bloggies you should look for this chick:
http://www.dooce.com/
i found her on the Bloggie website when i found you. It’s pretty good. Reading other blogs makes me feel like i have more friends.
Hannah Montana weirds me out, yet every time i see the listing for it i watch it.
Hannah Montana isn’t that bad… then again, this is coming from somebody who likes High School Musical.
Go to the award ceremony you dolt. You’re always complaining about being alone and secluded, now you’ve been invited to go to something. Worst case scenario? You don’t meet anybody or talk to anybody, the same thing that would happen if you stayed home that weekend instead. Best case scenario? You meet new people, have a great time, and become less alone.
Checked your website out when I was surfing some other blogs. I guess I’m old fashioned but I’m afraid I just can’t dismiss your off-hand reference to shop lifting as not only okay, but justified because Wal-Mart is evil, etc., etc. Theft is theft and it’s wrong. You may think you are stealing from a big corporation, but you are stealing from your neighbors whose purchases will cost more as prices go up to cover the “shrinkage” caused by thieves. If you hate Wal-Mart, stay out of the store. Don’t give them any of your money. Shop and spend in stores that you feel are more worthy of your business.
Why oh why shoplift when you have a 12,000$ computer to google ?
If you go to Austin you may want to go incognito. Bentonville, Arkansas is pretty close to Austin. The store detective may just find you, arrest you & use your blog as a confession.
You know IPs can be traced by the police. Use to moderate a forum & the admin. tracked people down with the police to intercept suicides.
I have to tell you a secret.
Even the people you admire , those people with a wife and 2.5 kids , a house and car. People with family and friends and weekend trips. People with perfect hair and white teeth. YA those people, they are lonely too.
They are trying to impress you with cars they can’t afford and houses too big to furnish. We are all trying to impress someone. Even people who say the aren’t are. They don’t know it but they are.
I might have kids and a husband, but I don’t have it all. I want more. I want a designer purse and 800 shoes. I want pretty hair and sexy legs. But I don’t have them.
But those people who do have lovers, they have them becuase one day at one moment they took a chance. They spoke to someone first, they told a stupid joke. And they asked again even when they were turned down once before. Those people have what they have because they were willing to take a chance.
I believe in you and I know that you just need to take a chance. There is someone for everyone.
By the way, I am a mom and and wife who is searching for herself because she is lonely. Lets be lonely together. Check out my blog, and if you really wanna make me smile. Leave a comment. no one else has.
www.villageblogger.com/AnnK/
By the way I don’t think you really stole the video;) did you?
SouthWest is my favorite airline to fly.
Even purchase a few shares of their stock.
I have pre-teen granddaughters who visit often. I know more about Hannah Montana than I ever wanted to know.
I voted for your blog because it’s refreshingly different than all the others.
I’m definitely the underdog in my bloggies category. I’m pretty sure I will be the getter of the least votes in my category. haha. oh well. I found you through there.
OK, here’s the thing. I got that email too and I feel really silly - because I was ALREADY GOING for work. Like tickets already paid for and everything. How stupid do I feel? I think you should come and we can feel stupid together.
Em must be REALLY new to the internet to of just found Dooce. She is infamous on the internet for being fired from blogging years ago. I will tell you one thing. Dooce will wear on you in a weird way, you will love to hate her soon. When she gets to the “you are 89 months old” entries you will see what I mean. Good luck with that.
And I too want to know how in the hell you got out of Walmart with an activated DVD?
I’m excited that all of these neat people are coming to Austin to visit me! Oh wait, they’re all just going to SXSW. Oh well. ;)
My dad’s name was Harlan. I’ve never known anyone else by that name. Hmmm.
Your comment: “about two days out of every three I feel like breathing is more trouble than its worth.”
I feel like that single minute of every single day, so you’re lucky that every third day is somewhat better. If breathing wasn’t an involuntary activity I would for sure stop immediately.
I think a lot of people feel this way but don’t want to say so out loud. I wish all those who think life is crap would get together and go on strike. Just sit down on the curb and say we refuse to participate any more. Something would have to change, wouldn’t it?
Also, FYI? WalMart may make it easy to steal but if they catch you they will arrest your ass without mercy.